How to forget?

How you get rid off of your deepest fears and your worst memories? Well that is a question I have been asking myself for a lot of time, and I think yesterday I found the answer. How you forget about the pain you are feeling in your hand? Easy, you just relax and try to have fun so the pain fades or you inflict pain in other part of your body. Obviously, to forget the pain I was feeling in my mind, in my heart, in my thoughts, I had to relax and have fun. Therefore I just started studying and hanged out with some awesome friends. While I was doing that I can proudly say that my pain vanished, at least for the time I spent doing that. Unfortunately, it came back as soon as I stopped wandering. 
So, what can we learn from this? The most relevant thing is that you need to forget, to change your thoughts, to relax, because if not they will just end up with you. The other option is cutting, but it is so awkward, and I believe it is just for very extreme cases. Additionally it is too painful and too SAW for normal people, I prefer to have fun, which works just the same and does not create scars. The most effective way to relax is just to focus on something else and let your mind fly free, so you do not obsess with the same sad and sorrowy stuff. Amd what is the best way to have fun? Well mates, that depends of the likes and dislikes of people.
But does this really work? The answer is sadly, no. Your problems will still live inside and outside you. The only way to end up with them is to face them and to fight them as hard as you can. 
Nothing scares me anymore, I have suffered so much, I have experienced so may bad things, so much sorrow, so much sadness, that I can say I am prepared for whatever has to come. However, that does not mean I am prepared to solve and destroy my problems and my nightmares, because I have never succeded at that. I have just learnt to live with them, to ignore them, even though they reappear stronger and faze me more than the first time. That's why I feel the necesity to share them. I am lucky, since I have found someone I trust, someone that understands me, and then I found some other people who are the same way, so I can talk to them and explain my sadness and my fears, and they can help. But it happens viceversa too, I can be very helpful at resolving other's problems, at making them forget, because as we always know we only see one perspective of reality, our own perspective, and we do need people to share their perspectives with us so we can widely understand what surrounds us. 
To sum up, fears and problems won't fade out just by having fun and forgetting them. Nevertheless we need to do that, we need to vanish for some time as they do, and them arrive stronger and with more desire to fight and to win. If we don't do this, only out nightmares will get stronger, and consequently thet will start winning battles, and eventually we won't be able to ascend and to win the war.
Thanks for being here dear blog.